Back on the Blog :) Let's talk about Friendship

I can't imagine I was out of writing for this long. Now it's time to get back to Blogging.

Well, i just randomly watched one youtube video about a girl's wedding. She had one of the most memorable moment during that time. Her wedding of course was the most memorable moment, but it didn't come first. The 1st one is when her best man did one of the most amazing thing to her during the toasting time. Instead of giving out the speech, her put those words into music.

Here is the video.... Check it out...



Well, I love the message she put on the caption at the very end of the video:

In Recipe of Life
The most important ingredients
Are Friends

This reminds me of how important friends are. Sometimes, I just take them for granted... Not really much that I've looked at it in a greater way.

I don't know what I have in me, but making friend is sometimes what I love to do. It's better to make friend, rather than making enemy. Even the grade 2 boy whom I stole his seat when I transferred into his class, he becomes one of my best friends till high school. I wasn't born in a rich family. I wasn't born in a powerful family. I keeps on using plastic bag as my school bag till i starts grad 6. I kept on using my older brother clothes till I was in grade 5. But friendship isn't based on those things. Personally, it's based on what I have to give to my friend. I don't expect anything in return in term of money, objects, ..... The only thing, and only one, I want in return is Friendship.

I remember I once started thinking on why I continue doing good, giving hands, and helping friends out in any circumstances, and I thought what's worth doing that... This made me putting a break on my friendship wheel. However, it's all about giving. It's all about to forgive and forget. It's all about doing what you can possibly do. When thinking about fairness in real world, I for sure have been cheated for some reasons. But when thinking about fairness in FRIENDSHIP WORLD, I have been given opportunities to express how much I value friendship, how much I believe in friendship, and how much I do love my friends. So, balancing between these 2 worlds is somehow needed.

To me, if I have to put these 2 worlds on one side of another on the scale, the FRIENDSHIP world will scale heavier. One can say he cheats on you that let you doing this, doing that for him/her. But I am happy to be cheated :) But that's not always the case... It's all coming down to your own judgment. This judgment will tell you if you really need to go further continuing friendship with someone. It doesn't mean that we have to do everything for every SINGLE friend. Being selective on this is the main point. And on how to have that judgment.... it's base on Experience in Life. One needs to go through all tastes of life to be able to make a judgment. No judgment is right or wrong. It's like your decision in life. base on your judgment that you can make decision in life. So, if your judgment doesn't lead you to the right direction, just think that you have chosen a difficult path, and try to figure out on how to fix it.... It indeed makes you experiencing another path of life by going through some bumpy road before getting to the highway.

So, don't take Friendship for granted then :)